Monday, May 13, 2019


 Strengths Essay (WGU Portfolio Career Reflections-April-2019)
The following are many of my strengths that I have developed though out my personal life as well as my career and have consistently strived to develop and maintain a high level of competence in these skills and strengths. Many of these skills that transfer into the future of my career and beyond include leadership and communication, influencing ability, ethical behavior, tact, planning and organization, critical thinking, as well as decision making and problem-solving skills. I describe my top five strengths in detail below.

1.      DEEP DIVING INTO PROBLEM-SOLVING.  Problem-solving skills is one of my primary strengths. In my work, problem-solving is a primary function in any of my duties. I begin with the End in Mind (borrowing from the 7-Habits principles) as I approach projects with gathering as many pertinent facts as possible from my customers and my co-workers who may be supporting the project. There may be ambiguity and many unknowns at the beginning and that may slow me down but I don’t put everything on hold in order to get started. I am flexible to switch directions if needed, while still maintaining the focus on the customer’s needs. This translates into a better designed report, or project outcome, with fine-tuned analysis geared to what the business questions were needing to be answered.

    DEDICATION, SOLVING FOR “YES” AND OWNERSHIP.   I have a ‘can-do’ approach to my customers’ projects and requests, and try to look at long-term solutions that are best for the whole organization, rather than make band-aid solutions for the short term. Ownership to me means that I take full responsibility for the actions I take, or the mistakes I make – in my work. I don’t view the problems as someone’s else’s fault - or blame them for my lack of understanding, or actions, or misses. However uncomfortable the conversation may be to say “I’m wrong” or “I missed”, I’m willing to do so and right the situation by taking appropriate steps to correct them. An example of this is when I was recently testing and validating a Report Dashboard that I have been working with another department on. The results of the testing brought to light some questions from my leadership that uncovered some requirements that had not been clearly defined in the project scope.  Disappointed that this had brought our project to a halt, which was on the verge of being launched, I had to go back to my scope and requirements documentation and write further metrics definition and take that back to the other department to begin work on. This process created a setback in our project release by over a month and still, I pressed on, got the requirements re-written and the new release scheduled. Whatever the obstacle is, I find a way to work through it and solve for ‘yes’.


CONTRIBUTION TO WORK ENVIRONMENT - EFFECTIVE TEAM MEMBER.  I have a tremendous amount of confidence in and respect for all of my team members and strive to also be a strong team member to support them. I ask tough questions of others, and respond without being defensive when they do the same with me. I’m vocally self-critical and take ownership of my own projects, and yet lend support to the other team members whenever they need it. I’ve done lots of training with other team members, as they reached out to me for help. I put the needs of the team before my own and sometimes this is to my own detriment,. While saying yes to help others, it can be a downfall to me if I run out of time to make my own deliverables. I do my job efficiently, with goal that it will make the team stronger and my other co-workers more self-sufficient to allow them to do their jobs easier. Along the way, this has also helped me be a more organized and structured employee, making me more efficient.  I think it’s a win-win situation for everyone.


4.      PERSEVERANCE AND TENACITY.  I have an uncanny ability to press on when things get difficult. I do not give up under stress, obstacles and challenges. Those things make me want to push harder and seize victory rather than give up and fail. This is not to say I have an unhealthy fear of failure, but rather, I use these experiences to learn and grow, and develop the best solutions. In my career and my life, I have had many opportunities to practice patience and tenacity, and perseverance. I have had setbacks where I was let go from positions due to circumstances beyond my control, I have had bad bosses that were abusive, or did nothing but discourage me, and I have had personal trials to overcome, such as bringing up children in a single-parent home, and overcome poverty. I have not let any of those things hold me back and go on to achieve the things I have, including finally obtaining my Bachelor’s degree before I turn 50 years of age. I have proven that I have a great deal of tenacity and it will continue to serve me well in my future.


      Tenacity is a strength that I surely have and the end result of problem-solving gives me the strength of purpose, this lets me know that I am on track to doing what I am supposed to be doing. Tenacity gives me the drive to dig deeper to uncover the root cause, if there is one, and it drives me to resolve or plan out a solution as well as tells me to not give up until I have found a viable solution.

5      VISION.  I have proven myself with my thought-leadership time over time throughout my career. Whenever I am asked to do a project, I go beyond the literal request and use my judgment and experience to see beyond this to discover the unspoken and uncovered needs. I try to make their ideas possible through sound, accurate, timely solutions, wherever possible. It’s tough to achieve all the time, as some things don’t work out the way you planned. I look for ways to bridge the divide between the business challenges we face, whether it is time, expense, or lack of resources, and reach toward the future of my organization. An example of this is in the shortcomings of the operations reporting dashboards that I am responsible for in my current job. These dashboards do not currently support the level of drill-down capability for details that the operations needs in order to take corrective actions towards better performance. I built a “work-around” solution with Excel that includes various views that highlight each level of the organization’s performance: their goals, actual performance scores, and status. Then I built several detailed views that give each sub-department the visibility of the details they need in order to make a plan for improvement. The details provide specific customers, contact information and sales details in order to let them make informed decisions with their planning. I thought up these improved views on my own and added them as a supplemental report to the overall performance reporting, which gives overall status, but not specific details.

Monday, April 29, 2019


Reflection Essay (WGU Portfolio Career Reflections-April-2019)

Beginning on nothing
Many years ago, at age 24 I found myself homeless, living with relatives, a single-mother with my three small children.  I had a barely-minimum wage job, but I was just above the qualification line for any financial assistance. I was making $8.50 an hour as a receptionist and I made too much for food stamps program too. Things were pretty bleak for us but we managed to get through this anyway.

My kids were 3, 5 and 6 and I had found that having an office job wasn’t enough – but it was a start. Life was pretty rough and I was constantly worried about whether it would be the electricity or the phone that was going to get shut off each month because I couldn’t make all my bills. My car was old and breaking down constantly and not running reliably. In fact, I had lost my job after missing too much work because of it.  But you just keep marching on forward and somehow find the support you need to keep going. I started over and I began trying to piece my life together.

Starting Over
After I got my car fixed by a family friend, I found another job, saved up money while my family took care of my kids for free while I waited to get approval for childcare assistance. I was able to eventually get approved for childcare assistance and got some help with transportation costs, and help moving into a cheap apartment.

I got some more training, took parenting classes, learned how to budget, how to cook from scratch, and how to feed my kids on $40 a week - that's less than $5 a day.  Make no mistake - I did none of this all alone. If it hadn't been for programs like United Way, the food banks, Catholic Community Services, YWCA, clothing banks, a YWCA training sponsorship to go to the Technical College for six months, and Multi service centers, emergency utility assistance, I wouldn't have made it past those years and made as much progress as I have.

People had been so generous and kind with their time and resources to help us through those years. It was not just the physical support that kept us going, it was the training, mentoring and emotional encouragement through the difficult times, that helped us not only survive, but desire something greater for myself and my children. It made me see potential in myself that was just an inkling at the beginning, and the hope grew into a flame and the flame into a fire within me to reach beyond my circumstances and for dreams that I could someday achieve.

I met and dated my husband Gary and we got married in 1996. I was no longer struggling to survive as a single mom anymore. He was in college himself, and finances were very tight for a few more years but things slowly started to improve for us. He was going to school to become a computer technician and I was working in office temp jobs, trying to improve my skills.

After several temp-assignments I worked on one at Boeing, that lead to a full-time position and that had tremendous opportunities to learn new skills while I was there. I discovered more about my aptitudes for software and data transformation as I learned how to upload training schedules into their Training Management systems. Over nearly three years I learned new software skills, took on more responsibilities and even after surviving a layoff from Boeing, these skills led to better jobs and bigger career moves into the Software development and IT industry.  For the first time in my life, I felt like I was going somewhere in a real career.  Things were looking up and I felt like I had purpose.


In my early thirties I started taking college classes and individual training classes to learn new skills as I needed them for my job. I was promoted to management and began taking on a lot more responsibility at work. My classes and mentors taught me many skills that have helped me succeed in life and my career. I was unable to continue the classes, as I was working too many hours in the management position, but it was in that role that I learned about my ultimate career desire: to become a computer systems analyst or business analyst.

Career progression
I had started out there as a logistics manager, and eventually shifted over to the IT/Systems side of the business, and moved onto a new career field as a data analyst. Since then I have worked in the healthcare field, legal services/bankruptcy claims industry, and software consulting.  I have worked for various companies like Amazon Web Services, Boeing, IT consulting, and others over the years since that first position in IT, progressively moving forward as a successful operations data analyst, even without the college degree.

Today the Future Looks Bright
As of TODAY, I am still working on that college degree –and I will graduate with my Bachelors of Science degree program in Business Management- IT next year in 2020 from WGU.  I have been a home-owner for the last 18 years, I have a successful career, my kids are grown, and stand on their own feet as well. My kids don’t remember being poor or homeless - though they respect how far we have come, and they know I am resourceful and diligent. I am productive, intelligent, can think on my feet, and resilient to bounce back when life just keeps presenting new opportunities and challenges.  I am grateful for the hard times in my life as they give me great sense of perspective and humility.

I attribute my successes to all the organizations like United Way, the Multi Service Centers, YWCA, Catholic Community Services, and many others who have mentored me along the way.  I still count on family members, community support groups, my church and my mentors and teachers to help me grow and keep thriving every day.  I will never regret this time in my life, with all the struggles, obstacles and setbacks. It has shaped me into who I have become today. I think all of these things will continue to help me move my career forward into my ultimate goal of becoming a great inspirational writer, women's advocate, and accomplished speaker.

Monday, April 22, 2019

LOVE SHOULDN'T HURT

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Megan's story:
My daughter was in a toxic, abusive relationship for 10 years and we, her parents, were unaware how bad it was. It has taken 4 years now for her to undo a lot of the damage. She wrote about it publicly for the first time today and I wanted to share it with you all here. I am SO VERY proud of her for speaking up. 

(Megans post)
I want to share something extremely personal, something I've never publicly talked about. There are things I had to unlearn about love over the past 4 years from my first healthy relationship with Andy. Hence why, though we are parting, I will be forever grateful to him:

REAL MEN do NOT...

1. call their girlfriend/wife names (even when they're mad or drunk)
2. yell at their girlfriend/wife(even when they're mad or drunk).
3. shove or hit their girlfriend/wife(even they're mad or drunk)
4. threaten to punch their girlfriend/wife.
5. punch walls or smash property in front of their girlfriend/wife to scare them.
6. trap their girlfriend/wife in a room blocking their only way out.
7. Insult his girlfriend/wife's family in order to hurt her
8. Blackmail his girlfriend/wife to stay with him by threatening suicide.
9. Attempt suicide unsuccessfully and then tell his girlfriend/wife if he died it'd be her fault.
10. Marry his girlfriend/wife and then on their wedding night after consummation tell her it wasn't as fun anymore because it wasn't "taboo".
11. Shove his girlfriend/wife out of the car and speed off.
12. Frequently have sex with his girlfriend/wife when she's passed out drunk or asleep
13. Touch his girlfriend/wife when she's sleeping when she explicitly said she wasn't wanting sex.
14. Pull out a gun in the middle of an argument.

Stop supporting and accepting supposed "nice guys" who thinks there's any excuse for this kind of behavior. Don't associate with them or condone them.

Ladies there is absolutely NO excuse for this :(

I only regret thinking I had to take drastic measures and compromise my morals in order to make toxic people let me go. It didn't work. Toxic people don't let you just walk away. And they just get new ammo to make you feel guilty.

It took me a long time  to speak out... because it took me a long time to realize how f*d up all that was. Andy had to show me over so many years that arguing or getting mad didn't mean everyone will lose control, that I was safe no matter what. There are lots of good men out there; the real ones always make you feel safe.
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If you or someone you know is any of the situations described above, please get help right away. There is legal and financial help available to get you safely out of a toxic situation. Please reach out to one of the resources below immediately. Your next encounter may already be too late.

National Domestic Violence Hotline can help victims, survivors of domestic violence. Call 1-800-799-7233. Chat w/ an advocate on our website.


There are currently 5 domestic violence and abuse shelters and programs in Tacoma, WA with 4 offering a hotline and 4 offering emergency shelter. YWCA Pierce County. ... Puyallup Tribe of Indians- Community Domestic Violence Advocacy Program.


If you, or someone you know is experiencing domestic abuse, the Crystal Judson Family Justice Center is here to help. You'll find all ... Helpline: 253-798-4166

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